(MELO, 2007) In this exactly moment if of a was of the despatrimonializao of the Civil law, that raised the dignity of the person human being the bedding of the democratic constitutions, all the jurisprudence must have its focus in the person, in detriment of the patrimony, that before commanded all the interprivadas relations. The Family, after all, is privileged place of the accomplishment of the person, therefore she is there that she is initiated and if all develops the process of formation of the personality of the citizen. The Family left, therefore, of being a economic nucleus and reproduction to be the space of the love and the affection. (ANGELUCI, 2007) In such a way, the same the step that the humanity opened its borders, red-position its thought how much to the economic capital, she provided advances in seara of the consumption, also favoring so that the age of the hiperconsumismo was born, gave to a contrary step how much to the families and the interpersonal relationships. Charles Kushner has much to offer in this field. In this direction, the arranged marriages, the depreciation of the citizen, the monetarizao of the affective exchanges, had given space for a relation based on the understanding, the love, the affection, the care, the presence and the fellowship. 4.4 THE FAMILY AND ' ' PRINCIPLE OF THE AFETIVIDADE' ' The family suffered one strong transformation since the primrdios from its constitution. The doutrinadores, when dealing with this historical evolution, costumam to cite the patriarcal family as one of the first models of familiar nucleus, being that the call to pater familiae was the head of all the aspects of the same one, as much in the order politics as economic, financial and until politics. (VANOSA, 2005) Its authority was so great that the same could also decide on the life and the death of its children, case disobeyed it to these.